This is not what it is only baby scars..

If there’s one thing that I will never regret in life it’s giving my friends advice that they need whether they see that or not. If my best friend is in a bad spot I tell them what’s what and if they don’t want to hear it I’m glad I told them anyway because in the end I know that I did the right thing and nothing else can change that. I protect my friends from making the same mistakes that I did. I know they will have to learn on their own but when it’s something I know that they will regret for the rest of their life? …. that’s where I get defensive and that’s where I step in. I’m not going to just let a friend deteriorate in front of my eyes. I’m not just going to watch my friend make mistakes that I made and that I regret to this day. I’m not the type of person to just sit around and watch everything unfold on its own and leave it alone. I’m sorry but that’s just not who I am and I hope that my friends would do the same thing for me. Sometimes the truth hurts… but if it prevents a prolonged problem from happening? I’ll tell the truth anytime, any day of the week if it’s going to help someone from making a mistake. Girls are blinded by the truth when it comes to guys. Guys brainwash you and it’s sad but true. Some guys are scum bags. And some guys are pieces of shit sometimes. And I’m not saying some girls aren’t, they are too. But when I see someone with one of those scum bags or pieces of shit I step in and pretty much say you’re making a huge mistake… and you know what kills me? When they just blow you off like what you’re saying to them doesn’t mean anything. They’re scared to admit that you’re right. They’re scared to admit that what you’re saying is true. They’re in DENIAL and they can’t even see that themselves. And this is in any situation and it just makes me so mad because I was in that position where I was in denial for a long ass time and once I finally came to my own realization I felt SO stupid. Pretty much what I’m trying to say is, that if you really care about people you won’t lie to them to make them happy. You tell them the truth, because in the end that’s all that really matters. The TRUTH matters.